A Journey Into The Soft Beautiful Life















It’s hard to believe that this August marks my fourth anniversary living in southern France. Even more incredible that I have never made my way to Valensole to enjoy the lushious lavender fields. Sunday June 15, my husband surprised me with a trip to valensole. These Sunday drives usually land us at the vide grenier (flea market). Today I was recovering from a sprained ankle. Eric promised a promenade via car, and my husband never disappoints.
There’s something undeniably enchanting about standing amidst endless AFROS OF lavender—the gentle sway of purple blossoms, the calming aroma wafting through the air, and the serene landscape that seems to whisper promises of peace. For many navigating the vibrant yet often hectic rhythm of city life, lavender fields offer a sacred escape, a chance to reconnect with ourselves and embrace a softer, more beautiful way of living.
The Healing Powers of Lavender
Lavender has been cherished for centuries for its remarkable healing properties. Its soothing scent is renowned for reducing stress and anxiety, promoting restful sleep, and alleviating headaches. Modern science supports these age-old beliefs, showing that inhaling lavender essential oil can lower cortisol levels and induce relaxation.
Beyond aromatherapy, lavender’s anti-inflammatory and antiseptic qualities make it a natural remedy for minor skin irritations, cuts, and burns. A simple lavender-infused oil or tea can serve as a gentle healer, reminding us that nature often provides the best medicine.
Living the Soft, Beautiful Life
As a native nyc gurl, I prized myself on my grinding work schedule, sixteen hour work days 6 days per week. I did so, because I had a greater vision for my future.
In a world that often emphasizes hustle and constant productivity, embracing the soft beauty of lavender fields encourages us to slow down and savor the moment. It’s about cultivating a lifestyle that prioritizes self-care, beauty, and grace.
Living the “soft” life isn’t about avoiding challenges but approaching life with gentleness and resilience. It’s about creating spaces—both physical and mental—that nurture our well-being. Whether it’s tending to a small garden of lavender, incorporating its scent into your daily routine, or simply taking a moment to breathe deeply amidst nature, these small acts facilitate profound healing.
Finding Inspiration in Nature:
“God get angry if you walk past a field an not notice the color purple”.
Traveling to lavender fields in Provence, the Pacific Northwest, or even local farms can be a transformative experience. The vibrant purple hues and fragrant air serve as a reminder of the beauty in simplicity and the power of nature to heal. I created the graphic images inspired by our drive to Valensole.
For city dwellers, creating an indoor sanctuary with lavender plants or scented candles can bring a touch of this tranquility into everyday life. The key is to infuse your routine with the softness and serenity that lavender embodies—a gentle reminder to nurture your soul.
Final Thoughts
Incorporating the healing essence of lavender into our lives invites us to live more intentionally and beautifully. It’s a celebration of the quiet, loving moments that nourish our spirit and remind us that sometimes, the most powerful healing comes from embracing softness, nature, and the gentle rhythms of life.
So, whether you find yourself wandering through lavender fields or simply adding a spritz of lavender essential oil to your day, let this fragrant flower be a symbol of your journey toward healing and living the soft, beautiful life you deserve.




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